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Navigating Trauma, Relationships, and Attachment
When Fear Drives Love Away: Coping with the Pain of Someone Who Runs
What do we do when someone’s fears drives them away from being able to experience love? And how do we cope with the pain of someone who runs? Learn how to use writing as a tool for helping you move forward.
I Love You, It's Ruining My Life: The Repercussions of Unhealed Wounds in Relationships
In relationships, love can feel like everything—until unresolved wounds begin to surface. In this blog post, we explore how unaddressed trauma and emotional baggage can destroy even the strongest connections. We also discuss how societal expectations, especially for men, contribute to emotional repression, and what individuals and society can do to break these damaging patterns for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
When You're Growing, But Your Partner Isn’t: Navigating the Loneliness of Self-Development in Relationships
In relationships, personal growth can be a powerful yet isolating journey, especially when you’re healing and evolving but your partner isn’t. This blog post explores the emotional challenges of being committed to self-development in a relationship where your partner is resistant to change. From the loneliness that arises from emotional disconnection to the difficult decision of whether to stay or go, this post offers insights and guidance on how to navigate these tough situations while staying true to your personal healing and growth.
Breaking the Silence: Understanding Emotional Abuse Against Men
Men need to be aware that they can be victims of emotional abuse in relationships, and the consequences can be deeply wounding.
Emotional Availability: What it is and How it Impacts Your Relationships
Discover the origins of emotional availability, its dimensions, and how it manifests in adult relationships. Learn how attachment styles influence emotional availability and get practical tips for improving your emotional connections.
Healing Heartbreak: How to Survive a Breakup
Learn how to navigate the emotional turmoil of breakups, especially for those with Anxious Attachment styles. Discover why breakups trigger core fears of abandonment and rejection, how the brain reacts like it's in withdrawal, and effective, evidence-based coping strategies to heal and move forward.
Understanding the Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style: Childhood Roots and Adult Relationships
Fearful-Avoidant attachment, a complex and often misunderstood style, shapes how individuals connect with others from childhood through adulthood. This article dives into how this attachment style develops due to specific parenting practices and examines its impact on adult relationships.
The “Ick” Factor: Understanding the Psychology of the Latest Dating Quirks
In the ever-evolving dictionary of modern dating, the term “ick” has emerged as a peculiar yet increasingly common phenomenon.
Self-Sabotage in Relationships: An Insight into Romantic Dynamics
Dive into the complexities of love and the patterns of self-sabotage in romantic relationships. Explore the foundations of love, the destructive behaviours that impede its growth, and the root causes behind these actions.
Navigating a Breakup with the Avoidant Attachment
Explore this comprehensive blog post on 'Navigating a Breakup with the Avoidant Attachment' - Offering insightful strategies, personalized advice and professional expertise to help you understand, heal and grow from the complexities of ending a relationship with an avoidant attachment partner. Begin your journey towards healthier relationships today.
Deactivating Strategies of the Avoidant Attachment: A Complete List
Discover avoidant attachment's deactivating strategies with this complete list. Dive into the different categories of deactivating behaviours and gain insights into the world of the Avoidant Attachment.
Understanding the Avoidant Attachment Style
Uncover the signs, underlying causes, and impacts of avoidant behaviour in relationships and learn effective strategies for managing and transforming avoidant attachment to foster healthier, more connected interactions.
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