Ask Your Questions

Do you have questions about attachment, trauma, betrayal, abandonment, or related topics? Please submit them using the form below. Your questions are invaluable and will help shape the content of our future blog posts here at Authentic Living. Rest assured, all answers will be provided anonymously to protect your privacy. This is your opportunity to gain deeper insights and personalized perspectives on issues that matter to you. Let’s explore these complex topics together—submit your questions today!

I Love You, It's Ruining My Life: The Repercussions of Unhealed Wounds in Relationships
Relationships & Dating, Personal Growth, Latest Posts Stephanie Underwood, RSW Relationships & Dating, Personal Growth, Latest Posts Stephanie Underwood, RSW

I Love You, It's Ruining My Life: The Repercussions of Unhealed Wounds in Relationships

In relationships, love can feel like everything—until unresolved wounds begin to surface. In this blog post, we explore how unaddressed trauma and emotional baggage can destroy even the strongest connections. We also discuss how societal expectations, especially for men, contribute to emotional repression, and what individuals and society can do to break these damaging patterns for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Read More
When You're Growing, But Your Partner Isn’t: Navigating the Loneliness of Self-Development in Relationships
Personal Growth, Latest Posts, Relationships & Dating Stephanie Underwood, RSW Personal Growth, Latest Posts, Relationships & Dating Stephanie Underwood, RSW

When You're Growing, But Your Partner Isn’t: Navigating the Loneliness of Self-Development in Relationships

In relationships, personal growth can be a powerful yet isolating journey, especially when you’re healing and evolving but your partner isn’t. This blog post explores the emotional challenges of being committed to self-development in a relationship where your partner is resistant to change. From the loneliness that arises from emotional disconnection to the difficult decision of whether to stay or go, this post offers insights and guidance on how to navigate these tough situations while staying true to your personal healing and growth.

Read More
Understanding Schemas: The Foundation of Our Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors
Trauma, Negative Core Beliefs, Latest Posts, Relationships & Dating Stephanie Underwood, RSW Trauma, Negative Core Beliefs, Latest Posts, Relationships & Dating Stephanie Underwood, RSW

Understanding Schemas: The Foundation of Our Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors

Discover the 18 core schemas that shape our perceptions and influence our lives. Learn how schema therapy can help you identify and change deep-rooted patterns, leading to healthier relationships and a more fulfilling life. Explore the impact of childhood experiences on adult behaviour and the journey toward self-awareness and healing.

Read More
Exploring Emotions Through Art Therapy
Expressive Arts, Understanding Emotions, Latest Posts Stephanie Underwood, RSW Expressive Arts, Understanding Emotions, Latest Posts Stephanie Underwood, RSW

Exploring Emotions Through Art Therapy

Discover the healing power of art with this guided exercise in exploring emotions through color. Learn how to use pastels to express and identify your feelings in a safe, non-judgmental space. Perfect for beginners and experienced artists alike, this art therapy activity emphasizes self-expression over perfection.

Read More
Healing Heartbreak: How to Survive a Breakup
Relationships & Dating, Latest Posts Stephanie Underwood, RSW Relationships & Dating, Latest Posts Stephanie Underwood, RSW

Healing Heartbreak: How to Survive a Breakup

Learn how to navigate the emotional turmoil of breakups, especially for those with Anxious Attachment styles. Discover why breakups trigger core fears of abandonment and rejection, how the brain reacts like it's in withdrawal, and effective, evidence-based coping strategies to heal and move forward.

Read More
Understanding the Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style: Childhood Roots and Adult Relationships
Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style, Attachment Styles, Latest Posts Stephanie Underwood, RSW Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style, Attachment Styles, Latest Posts Stephanie Underwood, RSW

Understanding the Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style: Childhood Roots and Adult Relationships

Fearful-Avoidant attachment, a complex and often misunderstood style, shapes how individuals connect with others from childhood through adulthood. This article dives into how this attachment style develops due to specific parenting practices and examines its impact on adult relationships.

Read More